Nov Izbor
If you’re dating a guy, do you truly feel like a priority to him? Or do you feel like an option? If he’s got a free night, does he call you, eager to spend time with you… …or does he veg out on the couch, bingeing Netflix? If he’s hanging out with friends, does he…Read More
I’m willing to bet you’ve met a player or two in your time. Maybe he strung you along, making you feel like he wanted more than just sex…but then ghosted when you got serious. Maybe he made you feel like you were the only woman for him…but then you found out he was seeing—and sleeping…Read More
Ah, the good old days. When a man would hitch up his wagon, drive hours to spend just a few minutes with a special lady, likely in the company of her entire family, and then ask for her hand in marriage. Now you’re left with one dude after another who bulk swipes right on all…Read More
The idea of dating a man who’s been married, who has his own baggage, might be a turnoff to you. Is he over his ex? Did he cheat on her? What about his kids? Do they interfere with his ability to date? Before you write these guys off, I want you to keep yourself open.…Read More
Things were going really well with this guy and then he dropped a bomb… “Uh, the truth is…I’m not ready for a relationship.” You’d been doodling his name in your notebooks. Telling all your friends about your hot new boyfriend. Picking out curtains for the house you knew you’d move into together. And NOW he…Read More
Things were great for a few weeks or months with this guy. Then out of nowhere…POOF! He disappeared. You were pissed off and hurt. But you got over it and moved on. Then…BAM! He’s back. He’s begging for a second chance, and you’re just not sure what to do. This, sadly, is a much common…Read More
You’ve got a date coming up. You’re anxious about taking things to the next level and having sex with her for the first time. Well, let’s get it out in the open… The first time you have sex with a new woman is always going to suck. But it will suck relatively. It will suck…Read More
Photo Credit: Tool Thirteen years. Thirteen LONG years I’ve been waiting for the next album by the rock band Tool. That day has finally come with their release of Fear Inoculum (Spotify or Apple Music). Tool is infamous for poetic, profound, thought-provoking lyrics around life’s deepest subjects. As ridiculous as it sounds, I owe a lot…Read More
Today’s article on navigating breakups comes from my close friend Jason Connell. Jason is a psychotherapist and meditation teacher in training. He is also a world-class consultant in leadership and professional speaking. He’s always thoughtful and he’s the perfect person to tackle this sensitive subject. — Earlier this year: I’ve failed. In my hand is…Read More
“Here’s what I texted her…” he said as he handed me his phone, exasperated. I was having coffee with a client. He was frustrated because he met a woman at a food hall the day before, messaged her later, and never heard back. I looked at his phone. The screen read… “It was great meeting…Read More