How to Be His #1 Priority, Not an Option

If you’re dating a guy, do you truly feel like a priority to him? Or do you feel like an option? If he’s got a free night, does he call you, eager to spend time with you… …or does he veg out on the couch, bingeing Netflix? If he’s hanging out with friends, does he…Read More

6 Red Flags That He’s a Player [AVOID THESE MEN]

I’m willing to bet you’ve met a player or two in your time. Maybe he strung you along, making you feel like he wanted more than just sex…but then ghosted when you got serious. Maybe he made you feel like you were the only woman for him…but then you found out he was seeing—and sleeping…Read More

5 Texting Signs He’s NOT That Into You

Ah, the good old days. When a man would hitch up his wagon, drive hours to spend just a few minutes with a special lady, likely in the company of her entire family, and then ask for her hand in marriage. Now you’re left with one dude after another who bulk swipes right on all…Read More

7 Red Flags When Dating a Divorced Man

The idea of dating a man who’s been married, who has his own baggage, might be a turnoff to you. Is he over his ex? Did he cheat on her? What about his kids? Do they interfere with his ability to date? Before you write these guys off, I want you to keep yourself open.…Read More

He’s Not Ready for a Relationship? Say THIS

Things were going really well with this guy and then he dropped a bomb… “Uh, the truth is…I’m not ready for a relationship.” You’d been doodling his name in your notebooks. Telling all your friends about your hot new boyfriend. Picking out curtains for the house you knew you’d move into together. And NOW he…Read More

5 Dating Lessons From the Infinite Wisdom of the Band Tool

Photo Credit: Tool Thirteen years. Thirteen LONG years I’ve been waiting for the next album by the rock band Tool. That day has finally come with their release of Fear Inoculum (Spotify or Apple Music). Tool is infamous for poetic, profound, thought-provoking lyrics around life’s deepest subjects. As ridiculous as it sounds, I owe a lot…Read More

How to End a Relationship With Love and Compassion

Today’s article on navigating breakups comes from my close friend Jason Connell. Jason is a psychotherapist and meditation teacher in training. He is also a world-class consultant in leadership and professional speaking. He’s always thoughtful and he’s the perfect person to tackle this sensitive subject. — Earlier this year: I’ve failed. In my hand is…Read More