How to Be His #1 Priority, Not an Option

How to Be His #1 Priority, Not an Option


If you’re dating a guy, do you truly feel like a priority to him? Or do you feel like an option?

If he’s got a free night, does he call you, eager to spend time with you…

…or does he veg out on the couch, bingeing Netflix?

If he’s hanging out with friends, does he make sure to include you…

…or does he “forget” to invite you altogether?

When you want to be his priority, there’s a certain way to go about getting what you want.

In this video, I address two situations: one where you are only an option (and that’s okay) and the other where you should be his priority. It’s important to know the difference.

Once you are in an exclusive relationship, if you don’t feel like a man’s priority, understanding what his priorities are can be helpful. It may be a matter of this man needing to shift his mindset and change his priorities. You may need to give him time to adjust.

But remember this: you shouldn’t have to force a man to make you a priority. If he’s not doing it after some time, he might not be right for you.

Talk to me in the comments below: have you ever felt like you weren’t a priority in a relationship? How did you handle it?

Your Coach,

 

 

 

P.S. Both of the scenarios I cover in this video are a part of the Little Love Steps program. Take the course, and you’ll be sure to move to the relationship phase!

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